Is This Couple Headed for Divorce or Just Really, Really Hungry?
Weight Watchers! commercial, loaded with stereotypes, perpetuates the wife-mom, husband-baby myths. Meet Matt and Meg. They’re in a commercial because they’ve lost a combined total of over a hundred...
View ArticleSurvey Says! Women Are Less Likely to Support Stay-at-Home Dads
Survey finds men and women both support giving up their careers to be stay at home parents, but women are far less willing to let husbands stay home How many times have we heard that men need to do...
View ArticleCall for Submissions: Marriages From Outside the Gender Mainstream
The relationships we have with our spouses are important—too important to leave anyone out of the conversation. —- I’ve been the editor of the marriage section here at The Good Men Project for about a...
View ArticleI Don’t Love My Wife
Derrell Jamison explains why he doesn’t love his wife, at least not the way he’s “supposed” to. — I stepped into my marriage under the presumption that love will last forever, but I was wrong....
View ArticleUnder Pressure: The Unending, Always Changing, Rules of Spousal Support
There’s nothing stagnant about marriage, and that includes the roles of husband and wife. — I watched the tears stream down her face as the pit in my stomach emerged like an internal “Big Bang.”...
View ArticleSex Drive: Who Does It Best?
Who belongs in the drivers’ seat in the on-road battle of the sexes? — When I was growing up, my mom was always the driver in the family. This was a necessary evil. Each time she saw a potential...
View ArticleI Love My Wife but I Don’t Need Her
Embed from Getty Images Our relationship is stronger because we know we can survive without each other. — My wife and I collectively taught high school for over 20 years. In that time we witnessed...
View ArticleRaising Boys Without Sexist Gender Roles
Embed from Getty Images — Editor’s note: The author wrote the following post in The Good Men Project Writers’ Group following a preview of the “#StopSexism” Social Interest Group (SIG). Here is the...
View ArticleThe Breadwinner
I’ve never been a breadwinner. My wife and I have been married five years, together for seven. I’ve worked as a journalist nearly all of that time, and if you haven’t heard—journalists make peanuts....
View ArticleIs the Need To Provide Inherently Masculine or a Social Construct?
Embed from Getty Images Women won’t have it any other way The idea that a man needs to provide for a woman would seem, at first, to be a dinosaur of an idea. “Giving stuff” to women would appear to be...
View ArticleThe Right Way to Negotiate with Your Partner
Let’s change fundamentally the way we think about being married so that you and your partner can create the kind of life you want together—and in the process help change our society. I propose that...
View ArticleSurviving a Sideline Seat to Pregnancy
Apart from mourning the devastations of the current pandemic, COVID-19 has given me a gracious gift — uninterrupted time to reinvigorate and relive all the mistakes I’ve made in my life. (Thank you,...
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